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Smash those self-limiting beliefs!

Self-limiting beliefs – ideas that you hold onto that you believe are fact.

These can range from anything such as “I’m too old to take up that sport” to “I can’t handle conflict”. In reality, these beliefs are holding you back from taking-up that sport, or resulting in you giving in to others. 

Some of my self-limiting beliefs when it comes to dyslexia were:

  • I can’t go to university – that’s what smart people do.
  • I will never be able to learn properly.
  • Being dyslexic only has a downside.

At one point in time nobody thought a mile could be run in less than four minutes. Once this belief had been shattered lots of people started doing it. 

The same is true when it comes to dyslexia. Dyslexic people are smart and, of course, go to university and get top quality degrees. Dyslexic people are very good at mastery and can learn new skills well. Most importantly, having dyslexia is also a gift and brings many positive things to you and the world.

“So when you hear that voice in your head telling you that you can’t do it, tell it you’re going to prove it wrong”

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Media Guest Podcasts

Guest on – Step by Step Dyslexia Solutions Podcast

This week I was on Dr Marianne Cintron from Step by Step Dyslexia Solutions Podcast. In the 17 minute episode we talk about my life with dyslexia, overcoming changes and the creation of this website.

Marianne program uses classical music to help dyslexia children to learn language. Have a look at her website to find out more.

https://www.stepbystepdyslexiasolutions.com/

I hope you enjoy,

Matt

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The Gift of Dyslexia: The Book that Completely Changed my World

Site founder Matthew has posted a review on the book The Gift of Dyslexia, on The Gift of Dyslexia blog. This book really surprised him and helped with reframing his ideas on and perception of dyslexia and learning.

A highly recommended read.

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Media Guest Podcasts

Guest on – Dyslexia Explored Podcast

Matthew was a guest on BulletMap Academy podcast, Dyslexia Explored.


They spoke about how like many dyslexic’s, school got in the way. Ending up going into a maintenance and repair job rather than designing. Then how he took the decision to get an engineering degree and now has a job he loves designing high performance cars.

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Dyslexia Life Hacks Origins

Dyslexia Life Hacks as the honor of being a guest poster on the Dyslexia the Gift Blog by the Davis Dyslexia Association.

The post detaileds Matthew’s life with dyslexia and how he came to make this very website.

I hope you enjoy!

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Lifestyle Mindset People Support

You’ve got a friend in me!

The best and most import hack of them all. Surround yourself with great friends that you care about and they care about you. Your friends are great for proofreading that application you are about to make or website you have built (like the number of my friends who proofread this one). Not only a proofreader, you can have some fun times laughing and making humour of your dyslexic works. They’re a good sounding board for understanding the issue non-dyslexics have with things and highlighting your positive traits.

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Technology Habits Mindset

Do not hit that send button!

The send button is there, tempting you to hit it the moment you finished an email or text message. It can be the misheld belief of some dyslexics, and until recently by me, that “normal” people can write a text message or email and do not have to go back and edit it. This is not right – having spoken to plenty people on this, they always wait 5 to 10 minutes before sending their emails as they need to proofread it and sometimes realise that the initial message makes no sense at all. If you, like me, have held this belief for years is a massive surprise. It is a good habit to cultivate, if you have time, to pause before sending particularly emails and text messages (although most my friends have understood my unique take on English language while texting by now!)

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Mental Prompts Mindset People

Record a presentation and then write it down

Presentation to deliver at work or a best man speech? But you struggled to write speech out by hand and then learn it traditionally? Then don’t. Think about your speech while driving the car, having a shower, riding a motorbike. Talking out loud will give you a feel for how it will sound to your audience. Then use the audio notes app on your phone to record some initial ideas. Start making bullet points – you will be surprised how the speech starts to fall out of you and you can use the bullet points as prompts to refine your speech. This is how I approach my speechwriting now. Maybe a few scraps note here and there then work though it in my head, speaking out loud and refine it from there